The detached one wins

My friend just said (after hearing me out - see two post below)that you have to regularly beat a guy's ass, then he's sweet and devoted to you. Once you show you care he will feel overwhelmed by this and will look for the nearest exist. I would just say that you need to be detached: not organize your life around your boyfriend's life. Your partner is just the cherry on your cake, not the cake itself.

Your career should harmonize with your core intentions.

A very good career choice would be to gravitate toward those activities and to embrace those desires that harmonize with your core intentions, which are freedom and growth—and joy. Make a "career" of living a happy life rather than trying to find work that will produce enough income that you can do things with your money that will then make you happy. When feeling happy is of paramount importance to you—and what you do "for a living" makes you happy—you have found the best of all combinations.
Source: Abraham-Hicks Publications, excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness"

I don't get you.

I don't get it. I love sleeping with you and you're not coming to my place tonight, because you cannot be with me 24h a day (I was alone all day by the way - not your fault, just a statement). I don't want to make you feel guilty because you are staying at your place, it's just that I don't understand why you would want that if we are so great together. Because you need to move around in the bed at night and you can't sleep hugging another person...well we just hug for a few minutes and then each of us sleeps separate. I am disappointed because I love sleeping with you and spending time together and I don't get it why we would do this to each other and not use every moment we can to be together. This seems to me like playing games, so next time you invite me somewhere I will not accept because then I will be "unavailable" and you will want me more. Why do I have to play games with you? Can't we just be happy together? I'm not even gonna mention the possibility of living together...

And you dare to call me and "mii" me, I'm not gonna be "mii" I'm not in the "mii" mood when I know you could be here with me and you decided not to.

Feel good!

Hard work is not the path to Well- Being. Feeling good is the path to Well-Being. You don't create through action; you create through vibration. And then, your vibration calls action from you.

Source: Abraham-Hicks Publications; Excerpted from the workshop in Washington, DC on Saturday, May 7th, 2005.

Thanksgiving

Let's make the most of today by really giving thanks to all the richness surrounding us. And once we have entered the spirit of appreciation let's make every day thanksgiving day.

What is it that I DO want?

As you look for a better-feeling way to approach whatever you are giving your attention to; as you continue to ask yourself, from your ever-changing vantage point, "What is it that I do want?" eventually you will be standing in a very pleasing place—for you cannot continually ask yourself what it is that you do want without your point of attraction beginning to pivot in that direction. . . . The process will be gradual, but your continued application of the process will yield wonderful results in only a few days.
Source: Abraham-Hicks Publications. Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness".

You control how you feel

You don't have to worry about what their vibration is if your vibration is one of connection. Because if your vibration is one of connection -- you're going to dominate the vibration. This is the way you learn your relationships. The thing that most people do not understand, is that you get to control the way you feel, because you get to choose the thoughts you think. Most people think that they only have the option of responding to the circumstances that surround them. And that's what makes them attempt the impossible, which is to control the circumstances around them, which only feeds their feeling of frustration and vulnerability, because it doesn't take very much life experience to discover you can't control all of those circumstances. But you can control your vibration. And when you control your vibration, you've controlled everything that has anything to do with you.

Source: Abraham-Hicks Publications. Excerpted from the workshop in El Paso, TX on Thursday, March 28th, 2002.

You decide how you feel

You see, you're giving others too much power as you even acknowledge how they make you feel. What you've got to decide is how I'm going to feel. We would go to a Virtual Reality and we would practice feeling good. Manifestations come on the heels of what you've conjured in thought.

Source: Abraham-Hicks PublicationsExcerpted from the workshop in North Los Angeles, CA on Saturday, March 2nd, 2002

A lazy lovely Saturday morning

It was the most wonderful saturday morning and early afternoon, hugs and kisses and having fun, so much laughter, so wonderful, it was just flowing, nothing was forced. I have a smile on my face while writing this. In your arms I feel so sweet and so beautiful, I feel such a powerful connection. I love you.

Perfect for Miiii

"I love you, not because you are perfect,
But because you are so perfect for me."

Self-love first!

Since we are complete ourselves, we just have to love ourselves and all the rest will magically be just right :)

Happy Relationship

60% sex (great, cosmic sex that overwhelms you with a feeling of eternal bliss)
40% support (understandig me, supporting me in pursuing my dreams)

all the rest is a "Bonus" and this bonus in your case...sure is big!

The Magic...

I guess there is as much magic in dreaming about him as there is in being with him.

Growing Up!

"Grow up Alinka, one day I may not come to hug you and will just walk away..." There you go, so I decided to grow up, and I didn't come to your place last night and I was actually feeling great, I was not needy or sad, I was happy and powerful and full of bliss because I realized that I do not need you and am complete without you. The only reason why I would want to spend time with you is for pure pleasure, to spicen up my already great life, so...thank you for letting me detach! Luvz...

The Law of Least Effort

The Law of Least Effort. This is the principle of "do less and accomplish more." When you stop struggling, blaming others, and forcing solutions, you align with nature's intelligence, which creates everything with effortless ease.

Source: www.chopra.com

17 seconds of attention.

Whatever you are giving your attention to is already vibrating. And when you give your attention to it, if you maintain your focus for as little as 17 seconds, you begin to include its vibration, whatever it is, in your vibration. When you see something you want, and you give it your attention, and you say yes to it, you are including whatever its vibration is in your vibration. When you see something you do not want, and you shout no at it, you are including whatever its vibration is in your vibration. In this vibrational world, which is everything, you are far more vibrational beings than you are verbal beings. You are communicating with everyone far more on a vibrational basis, than you are on a verbal basis.

Source: Abraham-Hicks Publications; Excerpted from the workshop in Portland, OR on Sunday, July 11th, 1999

40 pages!

3 chapters! They're grrreat and I'm so excited! I will send this to the publisher soon! :)

We are so great...

Such a magical evening and so...natural, just flowing,
such a wonderful night, so spontanuous,
such a pleasant morning seeing you get ready for work...

Is it because I missed you?
Is it beacause you missed me?
Is it because we learnt to really love?
Is it because we are growing more mature together?
Is it because we are just made for each other?

Your decision is right!

Make a decision and then make it right. There just are no wrong decisions. You could go this way, or that way, and either way will eventually get you to where you want to be. But in the moment you start complimenting yourself on the decision you've made, in that moment, you come back into vibrational alignment with who-you-really-are.
Source: Abraham-Hicks Publications, Excerpted from the workshop in West Los Angeles, CA on Saturday, August 6th, 2005.

That enthusiasm!

When you feel enthusiasm to do something, it means you've lined up the Energy, and you are being inspired to take action from that point of alignment. When you don't feel like doing it, don't push yourself, because your effort is not worth it. But, when you line up the Energy, the feeling of procrastination goes away.

Source: Abraham-Hicks Publications, Excerpted from the workshop in San Rafael, CA on Sunday, July 31st, 2005

I am awesome!

I'm just crazy about myself! I am so awesome!

A string of happy moments

A happy life is just a string of happy moments. But most people don't allow the happy moment, because they're so busy trying to get a happy life.

Source: Abraham-Hicks Publications, Excerpted from the workshop in Sacramento, CA on Saturday, March 15th, 2003

Everything exists for Joy!

Everything exists for joy. There is not one other reason for life than joy. We've got nothing to prove to anyone, because nobody other than All-That-Is is watching. In other words, we're not trying to get brownie points from some other galaxy. We're not trying to get someplace else; we're not trying to get it done, because there is no ending--we cannot get it done. Everything exists for the purpose of joy in the moment.
Source: Abraham-Hicks Publications, Excerpted from the workshop in Silver Spring, MD on Saturday, May 11th, 2002

Hail be Halloween

Cry? No! Be grateful for every moment we have and make the most of it!