Don't be Normal

You have a choice — to be someone who is alive, or someone who is living. Taking risks put us in the alive category.

Do you want something incredible to happen today? Bring it on by stepping outside your box. Do or say or be one thing that doesn't fit into your normal way of existing.

Source: Yehuda Berg

Exercise to achieve divine consciousness

In a state of relaxation, stand naked opposite your partner and visualize a three-colored flame in your heart. Doing this helps to radiate light towards your partner’s heart. Your magical partner must do the same.

For inner contact, visualize your partner wrapping you in those three colors. If you still cannot picture them, watch an actual flame before carrying out the ritual - then you’ll be able to identify the three colors and visualize the light they produce.

Now, imagine that fire coming out of your heart and reaching across to your partner. Spiritually intense, this exercise will bring about a stronger and more wholesome bond before sex.

A Magical Meditation for Lovers by Mabel Iam

Meditation with your partner

Both of you should be lying down and in a state of relaxation. Close your eyes and relax your minds, focusing on deep breathing. Concentrate on the air coming into and out of your bodies. Put the technique of harmonious breathing into practice now: both of you should inhale together, hold your breath, exhale, and hold your breath again. Practice the three modes of breathing (inhaling, holding your breath, exhaling).

Be aware of whatever comes to mind - your thoughts, the rhythm of your body, and your emotions. If memories show up, don’t repress them - just watch them and let them go. Picture your mind as a sky full of clouds. Watch the colors of the clouds and their density. Each cloud represents a feeling or a thought. Free each cloud until the sky is blue, fully blue and bright with the light of the sun. Focus on your mind until it is empty and quiet.

Do this exercise every day for 10 minutes. In each session, you’ll achieve the state of consciousness of love and eternal ecstasy.

A Magical Meditation for Lovers by Mabel Iam

Interdependent Happiness

Happiness isn’t what it used to be, but then again, we are not what we used to be, either! We are evolving and realizing more of our human potential. That is not an easy statement to back up with all the evidence of collapse and chaos that has been with us since the start of the century. But what is really going on? In the big picture we are evolving into the oneness of the family of humanity. We’re not there yet (far from it), but the handwriting is on the wall: we are going to have to solve our global problems as a global family. It is humanity itself that must rise to save humanity. The interconnectedness of our issues is becoming apparent at all levels: economic, environmental, energy, and food issues are all forcing us to deal with situations outside of ourselves that are impacting our own well-being.

The wound of humanity is rooted in our lack of understanding of the interdependency of all life and thus far, humanity has demonstrated a tremendous lack of humanity towards humanity. We have been like cells in the same body fighting each other. Imagine your hand sneaking up and attacking your face! We need our visionaries to help us awaken to a larger understanding of how interconnected all of life is.
Happiness in difficult times is hard enough to come by, but in this evolving global community, our happiness is ultimately interdependent within the world in which we live.

“I do not need things to go right in order to be happy.
I do not need people to behave themselves for me to love them.
I am free!”

This is unconditional love and happiness that doesn’t require
everything to be just right with everyone around you for you to feel good. When we quiet ourselves to what we think we want and need, the pure joy of being will surprise you by its ability to take delight in that which is already there and free.

Breath is too simple and too free to be respected for the amazing resource it can be for dealing with anxiety and pressures concerning time. Practice saying to yourself, “I release and let go of that which is outside of my control” as you breathe deeply into your belly and slowly exhale. Imagine the feelings of a smile breaking over your face and breathe those feelings of a smile deep into your entire being. As you slowly breathe out, send your smile as your energy contribution back into the collective. You are now a planetary light worker.

Source: Interdependent Happiness by David Pond

HE

He feels me
He loves me
He makes me grow spiritually and as a person
He understands me
He surprises me
He sends me flowers/songs/books/movies
He leaves me notes around the house
He always gets me presents
He is a gentleman
He is a great passionate lover
He writes
He is creative
He reads the same stuff I do
He knows who I really am
He is extremely handsome and has a great body
He likes skiing
He likes dancing and is an incredible sensual dancer
He cooks
He likes travelling
He is into spirituality
He has a sense of humour
He gives incredible massages
He respects me
He is extra clean for me
He cares about me
He understands my need to have my own space
He shares my life philosophy
He knows how to relax me
He makes me feel like a princess
He makes me feel so special

Saying sorry does not remove the pain

Saying you’re sorry does not remove the other person’s pain. Apologizing does not prevent you from having the same reaction again under different circumstances a week or two later.

To correct a pain you caused another, you must eradicate the trait inside yourself that caused you to react in the first place. Today, work on eliminating one negative trait from your nature.

Source: Yehuda Berg

And what if you had everything you wanted?

If you had everything you wanted, what would you be doing? You would be enjoying it, rejoicing and giving thanks to it, right? So if we start doing this already we are releasing our intentions, ourselves being in the right frequency, naturally attracting all that we desire. It's the right feelings that attract the right things, so let's rejoice and be grateful for what we have in our mental reality and, this is the way to it's manifestation in the physical reality.